Last week I had the honor to be a guest at Rise Up Radio and talk with Jared Kelley and entrepreneur extraordinaire Ryan Sisson, founder of the Moniker Group, about all thing entrepreneurial, servant leadership, the inspiring work of The David’s Harp Foundation, Inc., and changing our community. Here’s the episode if you want to listen in….
It’s Monday morning and you’re either excited to win the day, secretly dreading what’s ahead, or paralyzed because you’re unsure about what to do next.
If you fall under the last two, I want to encourage you today.
Thirtyfive years ago I was working at a sweatshop in Los Angeles. No air conditioning. Just an industrial fan sitting on a large window of a sweltering warehouse where dozens of Asian and Hispanic seamstresses constructed silk blouses.
That 105-degree, humid summer Monday morning I’d work another twelve hours armed with my tiny scissors in hand to start the day. One of my jobs was to collect the finished blouses from large bins. First, I’d cut off the leftover pieces of thread. Then I’d hang them on hangers, steam them, and cover them with garment plastic.
That last part I dreaded most. Plastic everywhere around me, sticking to my sweaty arms, legs, and cheeks.
At the end of that fateful Monday, after I counted my pieces and collected my $27 bucks for the day, I made a decision. No more!
That’s the day I remembered my late father’s words:
One move can change the momentum of the game.
I never went back. I decided to ignore that my English was terrible and mustered the grit inside me to change the trajectory of my life… one move, one day at a time.
What I know is possible for YOU today is exactly that. This morning you are one move—one choice—away from changing the trajectory of your day, your week, and possibly your future. You can choose to…
- Say no to something that is dragging you down
- Say yes to something that scares you but can yield tremendous dividends
- Take massive action on something you’ve been putting off
All of the above are power moves that are yielding bigger businesses, better relationships, greater profits…
You have more power than you think. Take that power today and win the day!
Join us today for Women Lead Radio as Michelle Bergquist, your host of Women Who Lead, interviews Maria Keckler, President of Superb Communication and the author of – “Bridge Builders: How Superb Communicators Get What They Want in Business and in Life” and nominee for the Woman Breaking Barriers Award at the 2016 San Diego Women of Influence Awards.
Maria takes us on the path to learn about her Bridge Builder principles for intentional and authentic communication. A bridge is a connector, a path that is built with numerous supports that provide the strength to last. Learn how not to let them crumble and become a Bridge Builder communicator!
Effective communicators place themselves in their audiences’ mindset, what does your audience need – not what can I give them. Learn more about the Bridge Builders principles to becoming a better communicator. Maria firmly believes bridge builders are all superb communicators.
Maria Keckler believes that business, entrepreneurship, and courageous people tackling BHADs (Big Hairy Audacious Dreams) can change the world! Maria is a business and communications strategist, philanthropist, and bestselling author. She’s also the founder of Superb Communication, a San Diego based firm that offers strategic communication solutions for small businesses and large corporate clients.
For the last 20 years, Maria’s work has boiled down to facilitating breakthrough for hundreds of teams and professionals through strategic consulting, coaching, and training. The result of that work has lead to increased innovation, collaboration, revenues, and overall business results for hundreds of leaders within global companies, Fortune 500 companies, and small businesses.
About Your Host
As the CEO and Co-Founder of Connected Women of Influence, Michelle Bergquist is a passionate advocate for women in business. At Connected Women of Influence, we believe that more women need to lead in business and everything we do is center-focused on designing platforms, programs, connections and collaborative opportunities for b2b women to prosper, succeed and lead the way in business today!
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Games are won on the second half of the game.
If you are in San Diego July 11th, join me as my VIP Guest for a live mastermind to kick off the second half of your business year!
Over 40 years ago I fell in love with inspiring words. The first I remember came from my dad. He began teaching me about pivot points and the art of chess when I was only six years old as he repeated a single phrase over and over again:
One single move can change the momentum of the game became my mantra and my directive to keep moving forward when everything seemed hopeless.
Dad only lived to be 39, but as it is the case with the distant mentors we love to quote, his legacy lives on for he truly taught me to dare greatly.
Today—as I celebrate my fiftieth birthday—I want to pay the lesson forward by gifting YOU with my 50 favorite quotes to inspire YOU to dare greatly too.
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It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat. —Theodore Roosevelt
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Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world. —Harriet Tubman
This weekend I did something I rarely do. I watched a basketball game on television. In fact, it was the first game I’ve watched the entire season. It was game six of the NBA playoffs, Warrior vs. Thunder, a nail biter of a game regardless of who you were rooting for.
Warrior fans watched their team trail most of the game. Thunder fans watched their team fight for every point of their lead and lose it in the last two minutes.
And although the Warriors ultimately won the game, there were no losers—not really.
Sometimes a win looks like a loss, but make no mistake: that game was a testament of two teams who pushed each other to new levels of performance. And that is a win in my book.
Here is a key lesson I took away from this game and the post interviews:
Winning is a mind game first.
- Get in the game (winning is for players not spectators.)
- Show up to win (believe you will win. Visualize it.)
- Take the shots (be willing to embrace risk.)
- Involve your team (winning happens in community.)
- Ignore the clock (every second counts.)
- A win looks like a loss sometimes (you make it a win when you decide it is.)
I have learned that winning in business and in life is not that difficult. It’s not a mystery. It’s predictable.
In fact, winning today is simpler than you think. Why?
Because MOST people …
- Don’t get in the game (they much rather sit on the sidelines)
- Don’t show up to win (they show up afraid… of losing)
- Don’t take the shots (risk makes them anxious)
- Don’t involve a team (they’re solo players)
- Think time’s ran out (they quit before the clock runs out)
- Believe they’ve lost already (don’t see the wins in the apparent loses)
If you are still reading this post, you are NOT “most people.” You like to win. You are a winner.
Now go make your move and win the game today.
I’m blessed to have many top achievers as clients, who always want to know what can give them an edge when it comes to reaching their goals by the end of the month.
Believe it or not, it’s simpler than you think—because most people have already quit pursuing their goals (especially since a holiday weekend is upon us).
Let me explain.
The stories you believe (about you, others, and circumstances around you) always win—whether those stories are true or not.
If you believe someone can’t change, chances are you won’t see changes in them.
If you believe you are right, you’ll have a hard time seeing someone else’s perspective.
- What “stories” about yourself are helping or hurting your influence?
- What “stories” about someone else helping or hurting the relationship?
- What “stories” about your circumstances are keeping you from seeing new possibilities and opportunities around you?
- What “stories” are giving you an edge and which ones are keeping you stuck?
You can change the narratives that are guiding your business and your life.
Don’t let any story highjack your influence, your relationships, and the outcomes you want. You can choose.
Lots of activity doesn’t equal accomplishment. Agree?
Today is day 8 of the 30 Day Business Breakthrough Challenge I’m running inside our private Facebook group, and we’re talking productivity and high performance. I thought I’d share today’s tip publicly because the top comment I hear from colleagues and coaching clients is, “I need to be more productive.”
If that’s you, give the 50/10 Productivity Strategy a go. It works because it removes distractions, forces you to single task, and then recharges your brain capacity.
Here’s how it works:
- 50 Minutes of Intense Focus: Set your timer for 50 minutes and give your full focus to your #1 task. Turn off ALL distractions: phone, Facebook, email… Tape a “Do Not Disturb” sign outside your door. Give that task your undivided attention.
- 10 Minutes to Recharge: When the timer goes off, set timer for 10 minutes. Get out of your chair and give your mind and body a boost. Stretch and move. Breathe. Drink some water.
Both focus and recharging are key.
I’ve been known to sit in front of the computer for 8 hours, no food… no water… no bio breaks. Productivity suffers. Health suffers. Our best work suffers. Give 50/10 a try and see what you think.
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I rolled my eyes the first time I heard my mom say, “One day you’ll understand.” It wasn’t the first time I heard her say those words, nor the only time I rolled my eyes when I heard them.
What did she know. I knew everything, and she knew nothing. Well, as you can imagine, I’ve been eating crow for quite some time. As it turns out, Mom always does know best. I can now admit that some of the best leadership advice I’ve learned came first from my mom.
In honor of Mother’s Day, I thought it would be great to give credit where credit is due and share seven leadership lessons I learned from my momma.
IMAGINE. A powerful word. It has launched movements. It launched a husband and wife house-cleaning business that got our family through the recession of 1992, shortly after the birth of our daughter and my husband, Sam, losing his 11th job in twelve months.
“Imagine if we could just start a business!”
A cleaning service was an obvious choice. Sam loves to clean, we had a garage full of Amway cleaning products, and I had a foolproof business plan in my head.
Our well-meaning friends (the critics), weren’t so sure. They reminded us that no one hires house cleaning services in the middle of a recession.
Motivated by an eviction notice on the table and a pile of overdue bills, we had no choice but to become game changers. We pawned the only items of value we owned (the hunting rifle Sam had inherited from his dad… and my wedding ring). $180 bucks later, we were in business.
$80 went to groceries, diapers, baby formula and a tank of gas. $30 went to Kinkos for designing a bright yellow flier and printing 1000 copies. The rest was just enough for mops, broom, buckets, matching shorts, T-shirts, and old towels at the local thrift store.
Daily we canvassed the nice neighborhoods, determined to pass out 100 flyers a day. Surely someone driving a Lexus could afford a first class cleaning team.
We never had to print flyers again. For two years, that business fed us, clothed us, kept a roof over our heads—and taught us that game changers act, not grumble.
I’m reminded of that story for two reasons. First, in Sam and I are about to celebrate 28 years of marriage, a time always reserved for looking back and thanking God for how far we’ve come.
Also, because it is a constant reminder that we, entrepreneurs, have the power to imagine an outcome and work diligently to see it come to fruition.
- by taking action every day
- by making bold moves
- by ignoring the critics or the economic conditions
- by focusing on the why, before the how
Make no mistake. There isn’t a shortage of money in the world. In less than a week, Star Wars made one billion dollars. A lot of people busying a $20 dollar ticket.
Don’t lose focus. Stay the course. Your mindset is your number one tool that gives you the unfair advantage.
Imagine the possibilities. Be a game changer. Be a bridge builder to your dreams.
How are you changing the game of your business and your future today?
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I didn’t fully understand the powerful meaning of these words. Until recently. Creativity has rarely been truly fun for me because a whisper in the back of my mind would say: What if it’s not good enough. What if others see it. What if they find out I’m not as good, as smart, as talented as they think I am. What if I’m not invited back… What if someone steals my ideas… What if… What if…What if… —the eternal enemy of creativity and creative fun.
I created a full fledged classroom out of stuffed animals when I was six—because it was fun. I came home every day and taught them what I learned in first grade—because it was fun. I was blessed enough to have a stellar five year old student in my little creative room, my sister Corina—because it was fun. She was so brilliant that she learned how to read and write from my silly and creative lessons—because it was fun. She went on to skip first grade in the process and grow to become a lover of music and art and all things wonderful, creative, and fun.
I kinda became a stick in the mud. An academic. A funless thinker and researcher and technologist and business analyst. Don’t get me wrong. All of the above could have been fun. And it’s becoming fun again. The What ifs killed the fun for me.
Yesterday I had a big breakthrough. I stepped in front of the camera for my first-ever LIVE Facebook video broadcast. No editing. No second takes to make me sound smarter and more likeable. No changing the angle to make me look thinner or more professional. A terrifying moment for a chronic perfectionist.
Why put myself through the agony? Because I wanted to connect with the amazing entrepreneurs I have the privilege to lead through a 30 Day Business Breakthrough Challenge.
I’m in San Diego. They are tuning in from around the world. I wanted them to see what was happening at the live mastermind event.
My insecurities were put to bed at the foot of service… because it wasn’t about me. It was about them. I wanted to cheer them up. I wanted them to feel the energy from San Diego, so it could fire them up.
In the next 18 months amazing things are going to happen for those who have the guts to get rid of the insecurities that have kept them smaller than they want and need to be.
I want to be one of them. I want to inspire others to do the same. So, I’m I’m stepping in front of the live camera more often.
I breathe. I tell myself: “It’s not about me.”
How about you. Why do you need to put your perfectionism to bed? If the reason is big enough. If it’s in support of serving others, you will do it.
The business breakthrough challenge is here, and today is day one! “What?! Didn’t I have time to prepare something?” You ask. Nope, it all starts this moment. Let me explain. The most significant lesson I learned early in life was that ONE move can change the momentum of the game. That one move is a decision that happens the moment you say “I’m starting now!” Not overthinking it. Not over analyzing it.
I’ve imposed these 30 day challenges on myself for the last four years since I left my full time job and never looked back. I set audacious and ambitious goals and failed miserably trying to reach them. I was disappointed with many of my results. But in the process of all that failure and disappointment, these are some of the things that took place: I wrote and published my book, got dozens of high caliber endorsements, including forewords by a NYT bestselling author and the executive of a global corporation, it became an Amazon bestseller, I went from getting $125 dollars an hour for coaching to getting corporate executives and entrepreneur clients who hired me for thousands of dollars a year on retainer, to raising my fees and getting paid up to $2500 for just one hour of my time.
Please know that I’m not writing to brag, but to impress upon you that